The Role of Visual Depth Cues on Visual Object Recognition and Naming :By Dr. Fawzy Osman, Ph.D., Senior Consultant Clinical Neuropsychologist

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Parental expectations of children’s development

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Parental expectations of children’s development
Journal of Clinical Child Psychiatry, 2007 15, pp. 259-70.

By Dr. F. A. Osman, BA.,BSc.,Msc., Ph.D.
Senior Consultant Clinical Neuropsychologist
CONTENTS ……………………………………….PAGE
Abstract ……………………………………………….01

Method ……………………………………..02

Subjects (Participants)………………………………….03

Procedure ………………………………….03

Result …………………………………04

Discussion ………………………………06

Conclusion ………………………………07

References …………………….08










Parental expectations of children’s development


The present study was carried out to explore the parent’s views and beliefs concerning the ages at which they think children typically acquire certain social and emotional skills, and the ages at which become able to perform various routine tasks. The design of the present study was replicating a research procedure designed by Hess et al., 1980 by making a comparison between two participants and the investigator himself. This is called the structured method. This technique therefore allows for the possibility that the parents will give unexpected views and that further questioning will lead to new discoveries about thinking.

The results showed that a culture differences has the most significant effect on the views and belief of parents on child development. The major difference in the responses Participant one from the Participant two and the investigator, is due to the different social background. Overall, the results of the present study in accordance with literature on whether experience or inherited factors can have a significant effect upon child development. The implications of these findings for the Vygotskyan theory of internalisation are discussed.
1.0. Introduction:

It is common belief that one of the main applications for a critical influence of child development is the context of social interaction provided by the child’s interaction with significant adults, especially parents. Different beliefs about children effect both the child-rearing practices and what children are expected to do.

The social dimension is very important in Vygotsky’s theory in studying developmental processes. Basically, Vygotsky believed that the process of developmental includes internalizing social interactions and it occurs within the child. The interaction can then begin to extend its topics to include joint action, and joint attention, directed to things other than the interaction itself. Vygotsky pointed out that society was essential to human cognitive development, beginning with interaction between the child and another person.

Studies of Hess et al.’s (1980) and Goodnow et al.’s (1984) have shown that how broader cultural expectations and values affected parental beliefs about the a proper development of their children. Hess et al., designed a ‘developmental expectations procedure ‘to examine in cross-cultural study mothers (i.e., Japanese vs. Americans) expectations of children’s development. Hess et al., found that mothers from these two societies placed significantly different emphases on what was to be encouraged as desirable in the growing child.

Moreover, Goodnow et al., (1984) replicated Hess et al.’s study and used ‘developmental expectations procedure’ to compare two groups of mothers (Australia, English as mother tongue language vs. Lebanon-born mothers seem to believe that skills can be learned when they are needed .

Generally speaking, many of Vygotsky’s observations fit the general findings in the present study. Vygotsky’s theory stresses the importance of including the social dimension in understanding child development. He argued that all thought arises first in actions between people and only then becomes internalized. On the other hand, behaviourists focus on observable behaviour rather than internal processes. For example, Skinner argued that history of reinforcements determines behaviour and by understanding this and using reinforcements one can shape behaviour.

Furthermore, Whiting & Edwards (1992) emphasize the effect of the community’s values on the way children are treated (e.g. phenomenon of electing power children). Their argument is guite similar to many ideas and observations of Vygotsky’s theory.

In sum, the present study is a replication of Hess et al., (1980) in which a comparison between two participants and the investigator himself about their views of child development. The aims here are to explore where parental beliefs come from, the experiences and influences that shape development goals.
2.0. Method:

The design of the present study was replicating a research procedure designed by Hess et al., 1980 by making a comparison between two participants and the investigator himself.

2.1. Subjects:

Two volunteers mothers as participants took part of the present study. The first participant is 27 year-old women and had been born in Bosnia. She came to Britain in her 20’s. She is happily married with an English accountant man (36 year-old) and her mother tongue was Bosnian. The second of 37 year-old, an Irish mother. These
mothers had children aged 4 and 6 years, a boy and a girl respectively.

2.2. Materials

To gather data in relation to expectations of parents about children’s development, the investigator conducted interviews. Each interview was about 65 minutes long and took place in the child’s home.

After familiarisation time and explaining the main purpose of the present study. The instruction (see Appendix 1) was read to each mother by the investigator.

After the participants have sorted the cards into piles. They allowed a five minutes break, the participants were involved in a discussion about their responses during the first part of the interview.

2.3. Design

The events and procedure used in the present study were identical to the research procedure designed by Hess et al., by making a comparison between two participants and the investigator about their views and belief of children’s development expectations (i.e., emotional maturity, politeness, compliance, independence, social skills and verbal assertiveness).

The ethical considerations were carefully considered. The investigator explained clearly the purpose of the present study . Parents happily agreed to participate in the present study.
3.0. Data and analysis

The data for this study were analysed using the comparison between averages score of each of six areas of child behaviour. The scores was based on the responses for the six areas of child’s development in different ages as follow: before 4 years: score 3; 4 or 5 years: score 2 and 6 years or older: score 1 (see Appendix 1). Thus, averages range between 1 and 3, with a higher score indicating a younger age at which children are expected ton reach the various developmental goals.
3.1. Results

The data of the present study are summarized in Table 1. The data in Table 2 from Hess’s comparison of Japan and the US and the present study sample are summarized in Figure 1, which shows the average scores in the six areas .



Parental expectations of children’s development
Area Participant 1 Participant 2 Current Emotional maturity 1.75 1.6 1.6 Politeness 1.5 2.5 2.25 Compliance 1.5 2 2 Independence 1.38 1.63 1.75 Social Skills 1.33 2.5 2.33 Verbal assertiveness 1.4 1.8 1.8

Table 1. Represents the average scores of two participants mother’s and one investigator of the present study for the developmental expectations for under 4 year to 5 year old and over 6 year old in each of six areas taken from Hess et al.’s. 1980.


As can be noted from Table 1, the average scores in the area of social skills were
markedly different from the data of the present study and those of Japanese sample. A detailed examination of the data (see Appendix 1 and 2) showed that Participant 1 (i.e., a mother of a 4 year-old boy) expected children to achieve emotional maturity at an earlier age than both Participant 2 (i.e., a mother of 6 year-old girl) and the
investigator ( a father of 9 and 7 year-old girl and boy respectively) of this study. The investigator’s of this study expectations concerning the areas of emotional maturity, verbal assertiveness and politeness were identical (average scores, 1.6 vs. 2.5 vs. 2.00 respectively) to those of Participant 1 (i.e., average scores, 1.75 vs. 1.5 vs. 1.5 respectively). With regards to the area of independence, the average scores between Participants 1 and 2 was markedly different (1.33 vs. 1.63 respectively) and the investigator (1.75 average scores). While investigator of the present study have similar expectations to these of Participant 1 for ‘emotional maturity’, ‘verbal assertiveness’ and ‘politeness’, the investigator expect later achievement of ‘independence’ and ‘compliance’.
Table 2. The developmental goals of four sample of adults.
Area/ Sample Japanese mothers* US mothers* UK ** mother mothers current*** emotional maturity 2.49 2.08 1.84 1.65 Politeness 2.24 2.04 2.18 2.08 Compliance 2.49 2.30 2.61 1.83 Independence 2.13 1.92 1.73 1.59 Social skills 1.87 2.18 2.08 2.06 Verbal assertiveness 1.73 2.18 2.17 1.64
Note: Averages range between 1 and 3, with a higher score indicating a younger age at which children are expected in reach the various developmental goals.
* indicates the averages in these columns have been taken from Table 1 of Hess et al., (1980), and Table 2, OU UK, (1990).
** *indicates the averages score in these column the data of the present study.
As you can see from Table 2, the averages scores for the participants in the present study was particularly roughly identical to those of the previous studies in the area of compliance. As the data stand, both the data of OU UK and the present study are quite similar, namely, in the areas of independence and social skills with the trend of lower averages score of the present study. However, the averages score of those two areas differed markedly from those of the USA and Japanese sample.


4.0. Discussion:

The findings of the present study have shown that parent’s culture has a strong effect of their expectations of the children’s social behaviour. A careful examinations of the data reported indicates the Participants views and beliefs about the ages of children’s development.

Taken together, the averages score from the different participants of the present study, the data collected by Hess et al., and the sample of OU UK are quite identical, namely, in the area of politeness. They all expected earlier achievement of politeness. This result is particularly important because it suggests that such attitudes are common to many cultures.

As the data of the present study stand, the effect of culture is quite obvious in the parent’s expectations of children’s social behaviour. The observed variation in the data between the investigator’s expectations and the Participants suggests that how a very different set assumptions held by mothers from different culture affect their expectations. Some societies encourage a great deal of adult child interaction with parents and elders , while others discourage it. For example, in some societies with large extended families, children are usually discouraged from imitating interaction with adults, ‘respect and obedience to orders are valued’ Whiting & Edwards (1992).

Moreover, the current sample data of Participant 1 versus Participant 2, the investigator in the present study demonstrated a distinctly different pattern of results, notably later expectations regarding emotional maturity, compliance, independence and verbal assertiveness. A careful look to the raw scores of the responses of Participant 1 (The Bosnian-born mother) reported that she used to have everything done for her, there was not any type of demand to share hard activities in her big family and her parent loved to enjoy her childhood time. This is one example of her parent in different culture express their expectations about the skills of developmental children. They are not expected to take responsibilities until they are much older. Miller (1987), suggests that such attitudes are common to many cultures and continue to exist today. Whiting & Edwards noted that adults caretakers, usually mothers, all over the world have similar goals-’caring for, socialising and transmitting culture to their children’ (Whiting & Edwards, 1988, p.87, quoted from BK1, OU).

As I approach the conclusion of the present study, it is appropriate to explain and try to answer the following question: How a parent’s behaviour can be affected by their image of their children?. Attribution theorists propose that causal attributions play a central role in predicting behaviour as individuals use them to understand, control and master their environment. When parents perceive a behaviour to be more intentional, they are more upset by it and more likely to endorse power-assertive discipline techniques. Hence, children’s perception of their own behaviour will be co-determined
by such parental attributions. To some extent, children’s representations of themselves will be moulded by parent’s expectations and ideals and these are transmitted through
mimicry and actions that reveal to the child how the parents have interpreted his intentions. Through this process the child learns how to intend’ (Dunn, 1982).

The result of the present study is similar to the studies findings of Hess et al.’s (1980) and Goodnow et al.’s (1984). The parents from different culture placed significantly different emphases on what was to be encouraged as desirable in the growing child.
To some up, to understand more fully the development of beliefs about children it would seem to be necessary to take account of cultural processes that affect both child and parents behaviour. Therefore, a simple cause-and-effect model cannot fully describe the complex transactional links between parents and children behaviour: each person plays a part in determining how the other behaves within the cultural patterns that extend and have consequences beyond the specific interactions between parents and their children.
5.0 Conclusion:

The results of the present study are consistent with many research studies of child rearing. Any account of development is necessarily culturally based, since the processes of raising children are essentially one of enculturation. However, it is important to remember that such understandings of human behaviour are not universal. What is true for middle-class white Europeans is not necessarily true in other parts of the worlds.


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The development of language, memory and cognition and Connectionist models :

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Attachment Theory and bring up children

Attachment theory and bring up children by Dr. Fawzy A. Osman Salama, Ph.D. Senior Clinical Counsultant Neuropsycholgist CONTENTS ……………………………………….PAGE Abstract ……………………………………………….01 Introduction………………………………………………… Discussion …………………………….. Conclusion ………………………………06 References …………………….06 Does attachment theory provide a sound for advice on how to bring … Continue reading

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Manage your weight..go to FAT-Burning phase..FEEL GOOD!!!

The induction diet and 14-DAY (maximum FAT Burning, Dr. Atkins) foods will help serve you as part of your long-term diet programme. If at any time you have broken your diet program, you will simply return to the 14 maximum Fat-burning phase for a quick “jump start” to your long-term health program.

1- 20 GRAMS of Carbohydrate (carbs) a day is your limit.  With this intake of carbs, you can go into ketosis (i.e, fat burning) and begin burnng your fat!. 
2-Eat until you are full, not stuffed. When you are not hungury, eat nothing or a small protein snack ( eggs, chicken, etc.). 

3-Stay only with approved foods (below). This is essential to your SUCCESS!!!!!. Don’t cheat with just little sugar or sweets or chocolate, or any of other “addictive” foods or drink (coffee, tea, cola, pepsi etc.). 

4-Stick with pure proteins, pure fats (butter, olive oil, mayonnaise etc.) and combinations of portein and fat. NO PROTEIN AND CRABS OR FAT AND CRABS!!!!!!!. 

5-Use your carbohyrate gram counter to make certain what the crab.
*-super low- no crabs foods: Fish/ tuna/sardines (ALL FISH). 

_*Lamb meat, Beef (ALL MEAT)
-*Meat Fowl: turky, goose, chiken (ALL FOWL). 
*-Eggs: fried, scrambled, soft-boild, omelettes (All eggs).
_* shelfish: oyster, mussles, prawns, lobster (ALL SHELFISH). 


SALAD DRESSING: USE OLIVE OIL PLUS VINEGAR OR LEMON. Eat green leafs (rocket, lettuce, spinach) NO CARROT OR ANY POTATOES!!! salad with every dinner.

Please just make sure no sugar.

mineral water
Decaf Tea
Decaf Coffee

Please, buy artificial sweeteners : Stevia is the safest (sold in health food stores), Saccharin, aspartame and acesulame K are allowed./ but sorbitol, mannitol and other hexitols are not allowed.

Please be aware of commons MISTAKES to avoid with the 14-DAY Rapid-FAT LOSS FOODS: 

1- Remember that the 14-DAY diet includes NO Fruit, no bread, no grains, no any pasta, no rice, no starchy veggies or any dairy products (other than cheese, cream or butter).

2- No diet prouducts unless they state “contains NO Carbs). 

3- Don’t get tricked by “sugarless” lables.

4-Avoid other products that are high in crabs like chewing gum, cough syrups, cough drops, and herbal candies that often contain sugar. 

IF you mistaken any forbiden stuff, then you have to restart again. All my best wishes and good luck!.

Dr. FAWZY OSMAN SALAMA, Msc.,Dip.Clin.Psych,Ph.D. C.Psychol
Senior Consultant Clinical Neuropsychologist
              GREAT BRITAIN
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Smile is the key to Positiveness

Dr. F. A. Osman, BSC, MSC, Ph.D.

Senior C. Neuropsychologist


استيقظ صباحا وانت سعيد :

يطلع النهار على البعض فيقول ( صباح الخير يا دنيا )

بينما يقول البعض الاخر ( ما هذا …. لماذا حل علينا النهار مرة أخرى بهذه السرعة !!!)

احذر من الافكار السلبية التي يمكن أن تخطر على بالك صباحا حيث انها من الممكن أن تبرمج يومك كله بالأحاسيس السلبية .

وركز انتباهك على الأشياء الايجابية ، وابدأ يومك بنظرة سليمة تجاه الأشياء . 

احتفظ بابتسامة جذابة على وجهك :

حتى اذا لم تكن تشعر انك تريد أن تبتسم فتظاهر بالابتسامة حيث ان العقل الباطن لا يستطيع أن يفرق

بين الشيء الحقيقي والشيء الغير حقيقي ، وعلى ذلك فمن الأفضل أن تقرر أن تبتسم باستمرار . 

كن البادئ بالتحية والسلام :

هناك حديث شريف يقول ( وخيرهما الذي يبدأ بالسلام ) …

فلا تنتظر الغير وابدأ أنت 

كن منصتا جيدا :

اعلم ان هذا ليس بالأمر السهل دائما ، وربما يحتاج لبعض الوقت حتى تتعود على ذلك،

فأبدأ من الان لا تقاطع أحدا اثناء حديثه وعليك بإظهار الاهتمام وكن منصتا جيدا …. 

خاطب الناس بأسمائهم :

أعتقد أن اسمائنا هي أجمل شيء تسمعه اذاننا فخاطب الناس بأسمائهم . 

تعامل مع كل انسان على أنه أهم شخص في الوجود :

ليس فقط انك ستشعر بالسعادة نتيجة لذلك ، ولكن سيكون لديك عدد أكبر من الأصدقاء

يبادلونك نفس الشعور  

ابدأ بالمجاملة :

قم كل يوم بمجاملة ثلاثة أشخاص على الأقل .

دون تواريخ ميلاد المحيطين بك :

بتدوينك لتواريخ ميلاد المحيطين بك يمكنك عمل مفاجأة تدخل السرور على قلوبهم

بأن تتصل بهم أو أن تبعث لهم ببطاقات التهنئة وتتمنى لهم الصحة والسعادة . 

قم بإعداد المفاجأة لشريك حياتك :

يمكنك تقديم هدية بسيطة أو بعض من الزهور من وقت لآخر ، وربما يمكنك

أن تقوم بعمل شيء بعينه مما يحوز اعجاب الطرف الاخر ، وستجد أن هناك

فرقا كبيرا في العلاقة الايجابية بينكما . 

ضم من تحبه الى صدرك :

قالت فيرجينا ساتير الاختصاصية العالمية في حل مشاكل الأسرة

( نحن نحتاج الى 4ضمات مملوءة بالحب للبقاء ، و 8لصيانة كيان الأسرة ، و 12ضمة للنمو ) …

فابدأ من اليوم باتباع ذلك يوميا وستندهش من قوة تأثير النتائج . 

كن السبب في أن يبتسم أحد كل يوم :

ابعث رسالة شكر لطبيبك أو طبيب أسنانك أو حتى المختص بإصلاح سيارتك . 

كن دائم العطاء :

وقد حدث أن احد سائقي اتوبيسات الركاب في دينفر بأمريكا نظر في وجوه الركاب ،

ثم أوقف الأتوبيس ونزل منه ، ثم عاد بعد عدة دقائق ومعه علبة من الحلوى وأعطى

كل راكب قطعة منها . ولما أجرت معه احدى الجرائد مقابلة صحفية بخصوص هذا

النوع من الكرم والذي كان يبدو غير عادي . قال ( أنا لم أقم بعمل شيء كي أجذب

انتباه الصحف ، ولكني رأيت الكآبة على وجوه الركاب في ذلك اليوم ، فقررت أن أقوم

بعمل شيء يسعدهم ، فأنا أشعر بالسعادة عند العطاء ، وما قمت به ليس الا شيئا بسيطا في هذا الجانب ) .

فكن دائم العطاء . 

سامح نفسك وسامح الاخرين :

ان الذات السلبية في الانسان هي التي تغضب وتأخذ بالثأر وتعاقب بينما الطبيعة الحقيقية

للإنسان هي النقاء وسماحة النفس والصفاء والتسامح مع الاخرين . 

استعمل دائما كلمة ( من فضلك ) وكلمة ( شكرا ) :

هذه الكلمات البسيطة تؤدي الى نتائج مدهشة فقم باتباع ذلك وسترى بنفسك ولابد أن تعرف

أن نظرتك تجاه الأشياء هي من اختيارك أنت فقم بهذا الاختيار حتى تكون عندك نظرة سليمة

وصحيحة تجاه كل شيء . 

من اليوم قم بمعاملة الاخرين بالطريقة التي تحب أن يعاملوك به .

من اليوم ابتسم للآخرين كما تحب أن يبتسموا لك .

من اليوم امدح الاخرين كما تحب أن يقوموا هم بمدحك .

من اليوم انصت للآخرين كما تحب أن ينصتوا لك .

من اليوم ساعد الاخرين كما تحب أن يساعدوك .

بهذه الطريقة ستصل لأعلى مستوى من النجاح ، وستكون في طريقك للسعادة بلا حدود. 


عش كل لحظة كأنها اخر لحظة في حياتك .!!!

عش بالإيمان ، عش بالأمل ، عش بالحب ، عش بالكفاح ، وقدر قيمة الحياة . 

بالتوفيق للجميع ،،،،

(Translated from Dr ABRAHM AL FAQY الدكتور ابراهيم الفقي ( رحمه الله)

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The health benefits of parsely

PARSLEY: It’s your free portable pharmacy Parsley is the world’s most popular herb. It derives its name from the Greek word meaning “rock celery” (parsley is a relative to celery). It is a biennial plant that will return to the … Continue reading

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بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيم

Today: Wed., 18 MAY, 2011: Time: 10:37 AM 

Have you ever really thought about the relationship between a branch and the vine? We don’t use these kinds of word pictures very much anymore, but think about it — if the branch is not attached to the vine, it withers and dies. The very life of the branch depends on being attached to the vine. The same thing happens if we try to operate in this life without beleive in God. God has a plan to turn things around in your favor. Right now,  Without Him, we can do nothing. We are cut from our life source. But when you remain in Him by daily connecting with Him through prayer, worship and study of the Word, then your life will be fruitful. You’ll walk in joy and blessing. Notice that this verse says :

 بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيم“And my guidence cannot come except from Allah in Him I trust and unto Him I repent” Surh 11. Hud/ verse 88

 Remember, God doesn’t want you to just barely get by. He wants to overwhelm you with His goodness! Choose to remain in Him today; choose to make Him your top priority, and you’ll see His hand of blessing operating in every area of your life

                                                       بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيم

Today: Wed., March 23rd, 2011: Time: 13:41 PM

What is the disadvantage or weakness in your live mean????
“Allah is subtle, Well-Aware” Let Mighty God helps us in our weakness…”

Sometimes, people get distracted by what they consider to be a disadvantage or weakness in their lives. It may be something about their personality or looks that they don’t like. Or maybe they’ve been through a lose of sincere person, an unfair situation: a divorce, a bad business deal or a bad break. We all have things that can feel like disadvantages; things that make it harder on us. It may even be a physical handicap, and you can’t get around like you used to. But just because you have a “disadvantage,” just because you’ve been through a tough time doesn’t mean you’re supposed to sit back and settle where you are. God still has something great for you to do! He wants to show Himself strong in and through you, and He’s given you His Holy Spirit to equip you in this life.
Let the Mighty God help you when you feel weak. Let Him empower you with truth that will set you free. Stay in faith and don’t get negative toward yourself or your future.” Everyone is going to taste death, and We shall make a trail of you with evil and with good, and to US you will be returned” (Sura 21 Al-Anbiya, verses 35
Let God take what you think is a liability and turn it into an asset! Let Him take what you think is a disadvantage and turn it around to be an advantage! Remember, you are more than a conqueror today and every day because He is strong in you.


Today: Monday 7th Feb., 2011: Time: 12:47 AM

                                                   The power to change

We all have areas in our lives where we desire to see change; areas we know we need to come up higher or addictions and strongholds we need to break. The good news is that God has given us the power to change! MULTIPLYING SURAH(At-Takathur):Holy Quran says: “Abundance diverts you, Until you come to the graves..” When we make our words line up with God’s Word, then what we declare will be established in our lives. THE AGE (AL-ASR0 SURAH:HOLY QURAN Says:” I (ALLAH) swear by Time, most surly man in loss, except those who believe and do good, and enjoin on each other truth, and enjoin on each other patience”. So often, we complicate life more than we need to (Abundance diverts you). Our minds get busy trying to “figure” everything out. So many people spend more time analyzing their situation instead of applying God’s Word to their situation! But today, you can activate change in your life by taking five minutes to declare His Word. Don’t live in mediocrity any longer. Let God’s Word shine on your ways and direct your path toward the life of victory He has promised you.
Today: Wed. 22nd SEPTEMBER, 2010: Time: 08.01 AM

Believe in your own success : We don’t change overnight. Persnal growth requires persistence.

“What you believe yourself to be, you are.” Claude M. Bristol

Do you believe, deep down inside of you, that you can succeed in what you want to do? Beliefs are strong, and they have the power to attract what is believed to us. If we doubt our ability to succeed, if we in fact believe we WON’T succeed, then sure enough, that’s what will happen. What do you believe about yourself? You have the power to change your beliefs, and that will change your outcome. Set goals you believe you can accomplish. Your beliefs will shape your actions. As you achieve these goals, you’ll begin to believe you are capable of succeeding and of doing even more.

“It is better to believe than to disbelieve; in so doing you bring everything to the realm of possibility.” Albert Einstein

“Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution.”  Dr. David Schwartz .

 Today: Saturday 17th July, 2010: Time: 20:40PM: 
                          ALLAH ALONE KNOWS THE TRUTH 

Take the first step : “When we take one step toward God, he takes seven steps toward us.” 

If our ego is to know spirit, we must make the first move. Spirit does not come down and knock on our door. It sits waiting for us to acknowledge it. We must want to change and take the initiative and persevere. The love of spirit will embrace us. But we must take the first steps.

In what areas of your life are you ready for change? What step can you take to open the door to new possibilities? It starts with you. ‘Faith is not complacent; faith is action. You don’t have faith and wait. When you have faith, you move, (Betty Eadie)

“It is not my business to think about myself. My business is to think about God. It is for God to think about me.”

Today: Tuseday 13th July, 2010: Time: 11:25AM: 

Your imagination is your preview to life’s coming attractions.” (Albert Einstein).    If you were to create an ideal future for yourself, what would it be like? All things that now exist in form were once simply ideas in consciousness. We each hold the power to manifest different circumstances for our lives. If we wish to manifest a new reality for ourselves, we need to consistently focus our imagination on the ideals we seek to realize. Remember to explore your ideal in terms of qualities, not people or things. What qualities do you most want in life? Freedom? Respect? Playfulness? Abundance? Whatever qualities you seek, imagine experiencing them now and be open to new ways to discover those qualities appearing in your life

“Change is created by those whose imaginations are bigger than their circumstances”, Unknown source  

Today: Monday 5th July, 2010: Time: 11:16PM: 

Struggling with a decision?

“You can conquer almost any fear if you will only make up your mind to do so. For remember, fear doesn’t exist anywhere except in the mind.”  (Dale Carnegie). My anxiety level spiked the other day as I wrestled with whether to choose option A or option B. I was so afraid of making the wrong choice! And then I remembered, with deep gratitude, Susan Jeffers’ sage advice: There are no wrong decisions! Whatever we might choose in life will bring valuable experiences if we are open to receive them.

“Lighten up! Whatever happens as a result of your decision, you’ll handle it!” ( Susan Jeffers ).

Today: Monday 28th June., 2010: Time: 11:54AM:

بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيمAnd Allah knows what you conceal and what you reveal” (Al-Nahl:19)
Are you facing a situation that seems dark today? As a believer, ALLAH promises that your path will shine brighter and brighter as you seek His truth and righteousness in every situation. What is righteousness? Righteousness is simply being in right standing with God. Being in right standing with God is about submitting your life to Him. It’s about obeying His commands and seeking His plan for your life on a daily basis. As you seek Him, the light of God’s Word will guide you in every decision you have to make. No matter what you may be facing today, take time to ask the Lord to shine His light on you. Ask Him to confirm His plan for you. As you continue pursuing His truth and righteousness, as you continue to make His Word a priority in your life, you will experience more of His blessings. You’ll see those brighter days as you move forward in the good plan He has in store for you!.

 Today: Thursday, 13th MAY., 2010: Time: 9.45 AM:

بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيم“”And if you would count the graces of Allah, never could you be able to count them. Truly! Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”. (An-Nahl:18) 

 acknowledging the goodness, already you have..!!  “You can never get to peace and inner security without first acknowledging all of the good things in your life. If you’re forever wanting and longing for more without first appreciating things the way they are, you’ll stay in discord.”

— Doc Childre and Howard Martin

Develop an attitude of gratitude. We discover a sense of wholeness as we appreciate both the small and big things in our lives. And it really helps to remember to appreciate ourselves. Appreciation is more than just acceptance — it’s respect and admiration. Let go of criticism and self-abuse.

 “Generally, appreciation means some blend of thankfulness, admiration, approval, and gratitude. In the financial world, something that ‘appreciates’ grows in value. With the power tool of appreciation, you get the benefit of both perspectives: as you learn to be consistently thankful and approving, your life will grow in value.”  Doc Childre and Howard Martin”.

                                                                You are complete

“And if you would count the graces of Allah, never could you be able to count them. Truly! Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful”. (An-Nahl:18).

“Everything you need you already have. You are complete right now, you are a whole, total person, not an apprentice person on the way to someplace else.” Wayne Dyer”

Close your eyes and imagine that everything you have and everything you are is enough. You don’t need to be better or different — you’re great just as you are. Can you experience the peace and contentment that owning that perspective brings?. Moving into such total acceptance does not mean that we stop growing. When we can accept who we are now, we open the doors to our own inspiration to do and be even more!

“Who you really are is enough.”( Oriah Mountain Dreamer)

 “Wherever you are is always the right place. There is never a need to fix anything, to hitch up the bootstraps of the soul and start at some higher place. Start right where you are.” ( Julia Cameron).

 Watch yourself shift from the self-centered, controlling behaviours of the ego to the power, love and wisdom of the soul and spirt of you.

Do you need more peace, joy, or any provision in your life? Friend, we serve a God who is more than enough and He has more than enough! The verse 129 from Surah Yunes in the Holly Quran says ..”But if they turn away, say “Allah is sufficient for me. La ilaha illa Huwa (none has th right to be worshipped but He), in Him I put my trust and He is the Lord of the Mighty Throne”.

The original Hebrew word in this verse is El Shaddai which means “the All-Sufficient One” or the God of plenty. In other words, our God is simply more than enough! He’s not worried about how He’s going to meet your needs. He’s not wondering how He’s going to provide for you; He’s already overflowing with everything you need in this life, and He longs to bless you. Do you know why? He wants to bless you abundantly so that you can turn around and be a blessing to other people. He wants you to be His reflection in the earth. But you have to first receive what He wants to do in your life. You can’t go around with a negative, self-defeating attitude and expect to see the blessings of God pour in. No, the Bible tells us that it is our faith that pleases God.

Today, keep an attitude of faith and expectancy. Remember, you serve the Almighty God. He promises to supply all your needs because He is sufficient for me, the God of more than enough.

 Today: Monday, 3rd MAY., 2010: Time: 1.15 PM:

بسم  الله الرحمن الرحيمWHAT you are Thinking???!! “I never know what I think about something until I read what I’ve written on it.”  William Faulkner

What have you been thinking lately? Do you know? We get so accustomed to our thoughts that we lose awareness of them. We don’t see how they are stuck in old habitual patterns, most of which don’t serve us.

Take time to journal so you can capture your thoughts on paper. By doing so, you will begin to take control of your mind and use it to best advantage.

“When you choose to understand [and] exercise control over the functions and attributes of your own mind, you will be empowered to create your own reality, to be completely self-reliant and totally prosperous.”(The Delfin Knowledge System). Access your own inner wisdom by tapping into your subconscious and intuition. Release stress, blocks and negative emotions, and spark imagination and greater vision. Go deeper…
 Dr. FAWZY A. SALAMA, MSc.,Dip.Clin.Psych,Ph.D. C.Psychol
Senior Consultant Clinical Neuropsychologist
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