Our life begins to change in magical ways when we open to the experience of life AS IT IS. With acceptance, we stop fighting what is happening. And this creates space, an opening for new relationships to unfold.
Explore unconditionally saying yes to the facts of life. Accept your past and where you are now. Unconditional acceptance is unconditional love and this is healing.
"Sometimes what seems like surrender isn’t surrender at all. It’s about what’s going on in our hearts. About seeing clearly the way life is and accepting it and being true to it, whatever the pain, because the pain of not being true to it is far, far greater."
No one promised that life would always be fair. People are imperfect; we make mistakes and bad decisions. You may have been hurt by others in the past, but the important part is how you choose to deal with that hurt. Failing to let go of the past and holding on to grudges and anger can only cause harm in your life. If you want to keep your joy and remove what could become some huge roadblocks in your path, decide to forgive others, whether or not they ask for forgiveness.
ALLAH says His daily forgiveness, in the sense of His daily favor and blessings, is based on your willingness to forgive others. When you forgive, you will find new strength and begin to experience ALLAH’s breath-taking blessings.
"..our lord! Put not on us a burden greater han we have strength to bear. Pardon us and grant us FORGIVENESS. Have mercy on us. Your are our supporter and protector, Parton, etc., and give us victory over the disbelieving people".
Holly QUR’AN/ surah Al-Baqrah, verse 286
"ALLAH, thank You for Your forgiveness. I know that I don’t deserve it, but I praise You for faithfully forgiving me. Help me to clear any roadblocks in my path by forgiving others, even as You forgive me" .
Self talk is revealing
"If you wish to know the mind of a man, listen to his words."
— Chinese Proverb
What passes over your lips each day?
Are your words typically negative, critical, gossiping, deceptive, illusory, justifying, blaming, manipulative and argumentative? Are they more uplifting, inspirational, positive, questioning, beautiful, loving, universal, truthful, accepting and supportive?
The throat is our center of expression. Who we are sneaks out in our attitudes and in what we say.
"Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs."
— Pearl Strachan Hurd
"The wise weigh their words on a scale with gold."
— Bible
Too many times people see obstacles, not destinations, and that keeps them from taking a chance and believing in this great mercy of ALLAH. When you have the faith and obedience to step out and trust Him, then you open yourself up for His love and compassion. He rewards those who trust in Him. When you step out in faith, He will open doors for you and make your path straight.
Dr. FAWZY OSMAN, Dip.Clin.Psych,Ph.D. C.Psychol
Senior Consultant Cog.Neuropsychologist
+44 (0)7901848273/+44 (0) 795756852neurosman@hotmail.co.uk
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